I thought about all the hurt he put me through, pain he caused me and worry I endured.
All the time and sacrifices I made for him. How replaceable I felt. Unappreciated and overlooked.
How I felt my person had been altered, compromised.
I feel clingy and needy.
I wish for his attention and need it. Why do I require so much attention? Why do I feel I need to fight for it?
I feel entitled. I deserve it and he should give it to me.
Why do I view him as so bad? Because he did bad things? Does that make him bad? No!
Because he got special treatment because of his looks am I jealous? Yes!
Because I have heard where he was and his words consoled my anxieties, fears, misery and trust issues while his actions confirmed them.
My heart broke.
I hurt him too, I know that. I wasn't fair. I did fucked up things. I catch myself trying to hurt him like he hurt me, but I refrain.
Why become what I despised?
I also questioned things today. Is this for the long haul? Can I ever fully forgive? Will he get better? What if there is another relapse? Am I ready to be with him? Can I still experience life? Are we compatible? Why am I thinking THIS way?!
That's what I want to find out. Why these thoughts occur. How much is because of me and how much is because of him? What can each of us do to negate these?
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